My determination to make journey daybook pages each day of this trip was undaunted with any challenges I encountered during the past month. I purposely forced myself to write as well as draw and paint daily. For me, this Christmas was somewhat difficult and I used my pages to record my feelings about my experiences – no matter how uncomfortable it was to do this. I was alone without any family presence. My memories of Christmases past were disjointed from my actual, very different Christmas experience of being in Mexico City.
On Christmas Day, the streets were largely empty when Mimi and I made our three daily walks in the neighborhood. Egoistically, I wanted to avoid the appearance of being alone. But . . . Alone I was! So, I reflected. I read. I unwrapped and cherished the lovely, small gifts that I carried with me to Mexico. I connected with friends and family at home. And, Christmas Day passed.
Each day I was away, I scheduled at least one activity. Often one activity led to another, unscheduled event. As I traced my inspiration, I made several new friends – people with whom I shared contact information.
I eagerly followed threads of information I gleaned from many new experiences – the history and life of Sor Juana Inez de la Cruz, the first North American feminist whose image appears on the 200 peso note, the concept of the scallop shell or “concha,” coffee culture in Mexico, and mural painting and the depiction of skeletons in popular Mexican art history. I remembered an interview I read this fall by Stephanie Ledoux, a well-known French journal keeper, wherein she states that she appreciates 1) traveling alone and 2) not speaking the local language when she is away. These seemingly counterintuitive statements point to the fact that she has a much more time for working – for processing her experiences. I so agree with Ms Ledoux! For me, the difficulties of traveling alone, especially with a small, old dog, were far outweighed by the benefits and the wealth of my many positive experiences, the movement I was forced to make alone, and the work I accomplished.
Most of all, I have a lively record of many new friendships and experiences. I am pleased to share some of these here.
I am loving reading the stories of your sabbatical. And the sketches are beautiful!
Thank you, Susan.
Thank you for sharing your experiences.
As someone who actively seeks out a Christmas alone I can still empathise with the need of others to be with family and/or friends. Advise I’d give to those that struggle is to think of it like a Sunday.
*advice
Thanks so much, Sue. Mimi had a difficult time flying this time – 8000’ altitude (?). This added to challenges for the first 3 days.
I am always so happy when you share your art….painted and written!
I loved reading about your thoughts and travels! You are a brave, warm and wonderful woman! I always enjoy your work and want to watch you paint one time soon! Thank you for being so kind to me at the Journey Daybook get togethers! I appreciate you!
Thank you, Geri. I have no secret. I just try to make my journey daybook pages regularly when I am traveling. I would love to work with you!
The secret of dedication and practice! Thanks!
As always you do a Wonderful job of writing and drawing an painting. I miss you and sorry to not be able to make the May dates.
Thank you for the complements, Tamara. It would have been nice to have you here in Cedar Key for an Introductory Retreat or Alumni Adventure. I know that you are taking good of yourself right now. It is important that you do this.